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Fairy Forest Wedding

What a delicious, delightful, precious, charming, whimsical weekend.

We gathered in the woods near Veneta, Oregon in July 2026, and proceeded to have a magical, beautiful, fantasy weekend.

I guess the real beginning happened when Glenda and Nick first met, but this blog is about the wedding planning process, Camp Lane, and how we made it all happen.


As you’ll read later, we reserved Camp Lane exactly 2 years prior to the date, as is their process. So on July 1, 2024, we paid our reservation fee, and got to work. Not everyone would want to plan this far out, but we enjoyed every minute and it gave us a long, forgiving runway to get our plan together.

We did the usual research for our major vendors: photographer, caterer, dance floor rental, and in this case, our yurt supplier. Everything else we took on ourselves. We have a big family, and large friend circles, so part of our spreadsheet planning was building teams for all the tasks: Decorations, Food, Activities, etc.

The summer of the wedding finally got here. We began staging all the items to take with us, and building our grocery and supplies list.


On Wednesday, after months of gathering supplies, planning schedules, and arranging flights, we loaded up the cars and headed toward Camp Lane.

Camp Lane is a county park, located along the Siuslaw River about 25 minutes from the Oregon coast. It’s not specifically billed as a wedding venue, but it sure does work as one.

Our event was my daughter’s wedding. Most of the family live in the PNW, and we had guests from Nevada, California, Tennessee, and several other states.

Some of the photos I’ll be sharing are from our photographer, who was incredible. Summer and Latife were everywhere and not once did it feel intrusive or awkward. They captured so many of our moments, and we could not be more pleased, nor more enthusiastic to recommend and endorse them.

We used a few vendors, who I’ll tag here as I go. A lot of the work we did ourselves, with our friends and family. It was one of the features of the event, that we would all work together. We had the camp from a Wednesday through the following Monday, which made it a full-on throwdown.

When we sent out the save-the-dates and the invitations, we included a link to Glenda and Nick’s wedding website. That will give a fuller picture of who they are and what the vibe for the weekend was going to be. We also had created a Discord for the entire thing, so we could manage questions, travel, dietary issues, etc. I can’t recommend this enough – the Discord was fun and lively, and so SO helpful.

This also helped us prepare everyone for what kind of event it was going to be: casual, warm, informal, with tons of food and activities, but also a big group effort.

Because of the nature of the venue, one of our vendors was a Yurt provider. Richard was delightful to work with, and we encouraged our guests who wanted a little upgraded experience to reach out to him and arrange to have a beautiful furnished yurt for the duration of the event. He asked for a commitment of 5 yurts, and ultimately I believe we had about 8.



Our family is a camping family, and all of the children have campers. There is an area of Camp Lane specifically for this, and we had 6-8 campers parked here.

There is also camping space for tents, and some of our guests brought gear and set up in that area.

Camp Lane lists that they have bed space (think bunks from scout or church camp) for 100, and we probably used about half of those. There are 2 bath houses with multiple showers, and some of the bunk rooms had bathrooms/showers as well.


There is a commercial kitchen, and a huge gorgeous dining room. They have those old-school cafeteria-style fold-up tables with little round seats, but they can be decorated beyond recognition. The dining room (which I think they call the Lodge) has a massive fireplace and open rafters, but the lighting is a little cool, so you’d want to come with mood lighting if that’s a concern. We had our reception out under the covered pavilion, but we had breakfasts and the other meals in this room.


Our caterer was fantastic – not one note. They provided our requested vegetarian meal, and the display table was beautiful. I wish I could be more specific about each dish, but those of us who were hosting were grabbing bites as we could, so I have to rely on our guests for detail about each dish. (In the following photos: we provided the cheesecakes – in lieu of a wedding cake – that we got from Costco, and added the fresh berries. We also did our own alcohol and bartender.)

The grounds of the camp lie along the Siuslaw River, in kind of a long park arrangement. This meant we had access to the river, although the banks are steep except for the beach area. The children of our guests enjoyed this, as well as a lot of our grownup guests, since it was a delightfully warm July weekend when we were there. It’s not deep – you can walk across to the other bank (waist-to-chest high water with a gentle current).

One word about the pups in these photos. Nick is a combat veteran, and we put in a special request to be able to have his 2 service dogs attend. There is a general no dogs policy at Camp Lane, but the caretaker was very understanding about our situation.

There were breathtaking enormous trees on the property, as well as a sweet bridge over a small creek, making photo ops available everywhere. We chose to have what we called an outdoor lounge, which we enjoyed preparing and thrift shopping for before the event. There was a large fire ring, use of which is 100% dependent on the wildfire risk at the time of the event. We were lucky in that it rained the weekend prior to ours, so we kept a bonfire going for most of the days of the event (BYO firewood).

We did the flowers ourselves as well, with flowers we purchased from Charles Little Flower Farm. Arranging to pick them up ourselves saved us money on delivery, and the kitchen had plenty of cooler space for us to store them a day or two before the ceremony.



Lane County has a reservation system for Camp Lane that makes reserving your weekend a bit of a challenge. They accept requests for reservations (with complete payment) exactly 2 years prior to your event. You can call them to see if they have any cancellations, and maybe once in a blue moon someone might get lucky that way; otherwise, you need to have your plan in place 2 years prior, AND be the first caller at the 2-years-prior day. While they require 100% payment, it’s refundable with the exception of $100 up to 90 days prior (CONFIRM THIS WITH CAMP LANE!). One cheat code for this is to pay to add a couple of extra days prior to your weekend (about $500 per day), so that you can call a day or two earlier. IOW, if you’re trying to reserve for an event on a Friday-Sunday, consider adding the Wednesday or Thursday prior to allow you to call one or two days earlier than others who want the same weekend. This also gives you an extra day to get there and get started on your decorating/layout, and was well worth the extra cost in our case.

In the following pictures, you’ll see some extraordinary work by Glenda and Nick’s family, created in those days before the big day. The display behind the couple’s table, and the altar for the ceremony were constructed with materials brought from home and found items on the grounds.


The caretaker of the camp at the time of this writing was a delightful person who went over and above any request we made of her. Her name is Teale, and she was as kind and helpful and welcoming and accommodating as we could possible ask for.

Because you rent the entire space, there are no quiet hours – party as long as you’d like, and with the exception of the folks in hotels or airbnbs, everyone’s sleeping space was stumbling distance from the reception.

The commercial kitchen had basically what we needed, and we loved the eclectic nature of the mix of old china plates. We had thrifted our own wine glasses and coffee mugs, as there weren’t enough of those for our 100 guests. There were plenty of plates and flatware. 2 things we rented were the dance floor (the pavilion was concrete, and we upgraded that to a wooden dance floor), and 100 water goblets.

We were delighted with our experience at Camp Lane. I don’t know what we would change even if we could. We brought some lawn games for the kids, but there’s horseshoes, volleyball, and basketball already there. We zhuzhed up the bathrooms with some mood lighting, nice hand soap, and health/beauty supplies. We also placed Welcome To Oregon baskets in each cabin with earplugs, first aid, hygiene items, and snacks, because we’re extra.

When we researched wedding venues, the costs were astronomical. Camp Lane provided an economical but no less fabulous environment for this most special of days. If you can manage the effort required to schedule (and the 2-years-prior lead time), and the rustic nature of the cabins, you have found a fantastic secret to a one-of-a-kind PNW experience.

One Year Later, Part 3

Where was I?

Oh yes, I’ve moved from Tennessee to Oregon, and I’ve posted about the move, and the months of August – November 2020.

First, we had a national election:

We had a family Thanksgiving, where almost all of us could attend, including a few plus ones.

And just like that, it was Christmas.

Murfreesboro, TN is located at latitude 32.84. Roseburg is located at latitude 43.21. You would think I would have been prepared for what happens in December and January this far north. The sun only appears for a few short hours every day, and when you live on a north-facing slope, with tall timber behind you, the direct sun does not show her face for 2 long months. Plus that ubiquitous PNW rain.

Time for winter projects.

Then: a gun cabinet
Now: a Library
More visits from family.
Cut. Split. Stack. ad infinitum
Beautiful ceiling, but not much light.
Winter landscape, before the grading.
This very good day.
Chanticleer, cock-of-the-walk
And one of his many ladyfriends
Scroll back up to: “…but not much light”

And that brings us to March. Stay tuned for more, and Thanks for reading!

One Year Later, Part 2

Now for the fun part.

First picture on the first day in the new house. Covid hair and all.

Second day. 3 of the 4 kids (plus their boos) arrived to celebrate the move!

You knew this was coming. We have a total of 11 in the greater canine Jordan posse.

I love this house.

Roseburg is about 90 minutes from the coast, about an hour south of Eugene, and about 2 hours from the California state line. It’s home to the Umpqua River and Umpqua Valley. The Umpqua Valley is an agricultural, and more recently, wine-growing region.

The house itself was built in 1976, and while it’s not a “fixer-upper”, it has experienced several years of neglect and lack of maintenance.

One of the first and most exciting things we did was to remove the overgrowth of trees in front of the house.

This is what the view looked like in the morning…

And here’s video of the last tree they cleared. Exposed the beautiful valley below.

You can’t live in the cool damp pacific northwest without one of these!

And because I can’t manage without farm animals of some kind, we had baby chicks in the first week, and got baby goats in November!

The cuteness burns.

Glenda holding Pennsylvania, aka Penny, and Amy holding Georgia. Born November 3. =)

Son Sam and sweet squeeze Maddy came for a visit in November, and immediately set to work fencing to contain the goats and chickens. We were starting from scratch so it was a huge project. Nary an inch of fencing on the entire 5 acres when we got here. Now we have 5 contained areas crossfenced.

Sweet Maddy, PhD candidate when she’s not fencing.

The pants and boots tell the soggy story, but Sam got us there.

Then there’s the back deck. You can see the ivy was taking over. After pics to come.
Here’s a view of the side yard in September 2020.

And here’s the view from the same spot in August 2021.

There have been some things to adjust to. One week after we moved in, in early September, the big wildfires of the 2020 fire season came. We had about a week of dangerous air quality, and wore masks outside. We even only let the dogs out briefly to potty.

Dramatic and terrifying. This was 10 days after we moved in.
Didn’t want you to forget we brought these guys along.

Bones, we like your choice of spots.

Visit from a precious friend in October.

Can’t get enough of this.

Visit from precious family, because I LIVE HERE NOW.

The obligatory pic of the Grand, in his natural habitat.

We’ve blazed a trail up the hillside behind the house and have discovered our own little fairy glen. More pics of that as we work on it.

Some sad news too. We lost this old girl this year. The house is not the same without her snuffling self. We are so grateful for the 10 years we had with her.

Is this heaven? No, it’s Oregon.

I’m beginning to see my mistake. You can’t take a year’s break from your blog and expect to catch up in 2 posts.

I’m up to November 2020 in the telling. I’ll keep it going with more posts, until I’m caught up.

Thank you for playing along, and as always, thanks for reading.

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