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And law school continues…

It’s so central to my life, I take it for granted everyone else knows about it, til I check and it has been weeks since I mentioned it!

So on it goes.  I am closing in on the end of my first year; this program is 4 years, as opposed to most bricks and mortar law schools which are 3.  My final exam is December 3, over which I am appropriately freaking out.  Then the real fun begins.

Because my school is based in CA, the CA Bar requires the taking of the First Year Law Students Exam (FYLSE), affectionately known as the Baby Bar.  It’s a great idea:  you can’t continue in school if you don’t pass it.  In 3 tries.  Well, you CAN, but you get the idea.  I begin my second year in January, and don’t take the FYLSE until June 2012 – halfway through my 2nd year!

Both tests consist of 100 multiple choice questions and 3 essays.  Easy, right?  Sure.  Subjects are Torts, Criminal Law, and Contracts.  They each have their interesting parts, and each have their tedious parts.  The trick is having memorized the rules, the exceptions, and the exceptions to the exceptions, and to be able to analyze and answer the questions, and analyze and write the essays.  1st world problem.

So my study group is a bit unconventional.  (I know, big surprise.)  We have virtual study sessions where we’re on skype reviewing subjects.  Sometimes we’re on the phones, sometimes we’re using email or text.  But this past weekend, we went all out.

happy to finally meet!

Our study group met in 1000 Oaks, California, at the home of Charlene and Rick, and their son Kevin.  I flew in from TN, and Rosine and Myra drove from Tuscon.  We converged on a Friday afternoon, and I don’t really know how, but we managed to squeeze in 4 meals in restaurants, hours of studying, a 2.5 mile walk, at least 4 practice tests, and loads of laughing and socializing, all before I took the redeye out on Sunday!

Charlene and Rick were hosts above all hosts.  Here’s a study area:

Rick grew the roses

And here’s our study tshirts:

I'm not tellin

Then there’s Rick, Char’s long-suffering and patient husband, who waited on the students beyond anyone’s imagination:

afternoon snacktime
Nicest. Man. EVER.

And this was the lovely environment in which all this studying took place:

morning coffee, anyone?

And I can’t leave out Kevin, who gave up his bedroom and bathroom for 2 nights, engaged in a philosophical conversation with me (one of my favorites), let us take over his house for the weekend with no complaint (reminder:  he’s 16), and was an all-around good sport about our endless probing questions into his life and interests.  And can I also add this boy is a 4.0, AP, perfect SAT, Harvard or Yale prospect track star??

Char and Kevin

I can’t believe I didn’t get a picture of Sparky, our beagle companion, who added so much to the group dynamic.  She had a lot to say, and as she is refining her “size-reduction techniques”, commiserated with the rest of us about the challenges of that!

The Tuscon contingent

All in all, we had a wonderful weekend of study and friendship.  We hope to do it again in February and April, before our big test in June, and we hope to do at least one of those sessions here in TN.  Myra, who is in graduate school, but not law school, says she wants to work on the farm.  I said to bring her boots.  If we make this happen, we’ll have a throwdown/bonfire for the school posse to meet some of my TN posse.

So much legal brainpower in one shot
Our little group before our walk to....breakfast, of course.

Rick, Kevin, Charlene, Myra, Rosine, Sparky — thank you for a fabulous weekend!

Thanks for reading!

 

 

Short and sweet

I hate it when I want to blog and want to blog and mean to blog and try to blog and then I check and it’s been 3 weeks since I blogged!  I really have much more to say than that!

I’m not going to blahblahblahlife’ssobusyIcan’tblogrightnowI’lldoittomorrowblahblahblah.  But I will say that I’m in the process of developing a super-secret high-tech process by which I can blog directly from my brain.  Could get a little scary if I don’t have the filter set high enough, but absolutely promises to be interesting…

I am still coming down off my high of the last week.  JT Eberhard of the Secular Student Alliance was the guest of several Tennessee campuses and I had the privilege of carting his sweet self around the state!  I got to hear him present both his “Morality without Religion” speech, and his “Coming Out Secular” (my favorite) at the campuses of Austin Peay, MTSU, Vanderbilt, and ETSU.  I also got to hear the questions from the bright minds of the student attendees, and I was encouraged beyond description for our movement.

I am more convinced than ever that the future of secularism in our country is in the hands of our youth.  I believe that my generation will trickle out of the faith, but our freethinking college and high school students recognize the importance of a secular society, the strength of the separation of church and state, the absolute need for a strong scientific approach in our schools, and the use of ration and reason as a basis for decision-making at every political level.

In the interest of getting this posted, I’ll sign off with a renewed promise to blog more often, what and all if they are a bit brief.  (“what and all” is an expression my mother uses, and I’ll ask her what it means when I make a trip to Atlanta this week).

Loving this fall weather….thanks for reading!

Ragbrai 2011

Hot, Hot, HOT!!

In spite of that, we’re having a great time!

I always have intentions of blogging everyday, but every year I forget how unbelievably difficult it is to find internet access or a decent signal on my aircard.  The system is so overloaded with the influx of 20,000 cyclists and their electronica – we get text messages from one another the next day.

The drive up was uneventful, considering the bus, the passengers, and the mission.  We met 5  team members in 3 places near Davenport.  So we were finally assembled as a team of 16 and headed across the state to Glenwood, the starting town.

The ride up gets interesting

The first morning is always so exciting — we’re like racehorses waiting for the gates to open.  Everyone is in clean, new Team Fly jerseys, our bikes are cleaned and tuned and we get up at sunrise ready to roll.

most of the team starting out

The weather forecast has been for mid to high 80’s, which sounds lovely until you factor in the heat index (which, by the way friends, Rush Limbaugh says is a left wing conspiracy).  We’ve had such high humidity a couple of days have been ridiculously uncomfortable.  It has finally (on day 6) leveled off a bit, but it’s still toasty.

musician in a tree doing yoga?
hanging around the campsite in the evening
Slacklining for cyclists
Chef Dustin and our salmon feast
typical campsite shot
temporary tattoos
sometimes it happens
some small town in Iowa
not sure
all of Iowa has this good of reception
Bobbing for beer - not as easy as it looks
tequila, especially expensive tequila, helps with the heat
sweet Sam
another typical campsite shot
lots and lots of this

I know this blog is heavy on the pics and light on the words, but I’ll go back and fill in.  Hopefully the pics tell a lot of the story.  I’ll try to have more pictures on my Facebook page and on the Team Fly Facebook page.

For now, I’ll end this blog at about the halfway point of the ride and do a followup post when I can get internet again.

We are having a blast, as we always do on this magnificent bike ride.  We are enjoying each other and all of our new friends in spite of the atrocious heat.

Thanks for reading!!

 

And now for a complete change of pace

I forget that not everyone knows the lingo.

Kick-ass Team Fly bus

Ragbrai is such a part of our family’s vocabulary I can’t remember ever not knowing it.  This bike ride across Iowa has been rolling every year since 1973; our family’s first year to do it was 1990.

Ben was 5 and already on his 2 wheeler.  Sam was 3 and on training wheels.  The girls were 16 months old.  We were living in Minnesota at the time, and Iowa was just a hop-skip south.  My dad had done Ragbrai and urged us on so off we went.

It was a train wreck to say the least.  Jesse was on his bike with Sam and Ben in a little cart behind him, trailering Ben’s baby bike.  Every few miles, Jesse would get Ben out of the cart, let him ride a mile or two, put him back in the cart with Sam, and they’d go on again.  I had the two girls in the cart behind me, with their toys and sippee cups and pillows.

It was hot and crowded and we couldn’t get enough.  The rest, as they say, is history.  Our family calls this week the Best Week of the Year.  We may not get all the kids together at Christmas, but we can always count on Ragbrai.

This year, as it has been the last few years, Ben and girlfriend Kirsten will drive from Colorado and meet us in the End Town (Davenport this year) on the Eastern edge of the state, where they will get in the bus with us and drive across to the Western edge (Glenwood).

from the back looking forward
from the front looking toward the back

We will pack the bus and leave from Murfreesboro at 6:00 on Wednesday.  It’s about 18 hours (by Team Fly bus) to Davenport, then another several hours across.  We’ll be in place Saturday evening for our team kickoff meeting and Sunday am start!  Tradition has the group of 20,000 riders dipping their wheels in the Missouri River Sunday morning, then after the 500 or so miles across the state, 7 days later dipping them in the Mississippi.

peleton up top

These are all old pictures.  I’ll do my best to blog across the state, but internet is just too overwhelmed, even with my aircard.

Team Fly 2009

If ever in your daydreaming you think about doing something crazy and impulsive and out of the ordinary….Ragbrai is your ride.  Always the last full week in July, always 7 days, always west to east.  You don’t have to ride every mile – that’s what the bus is for.

Thanks for reading!

TAM9 Debrief

These have truly been 4 of the most interesting days I have ever experienced.

Amy and I are on a plane headed east, home, away from Sin City and the conference known as TAM.  This year’s theme was Tam 9 from Outer Space, and when I get home, I intend to watch the movie Plan 9 from Outer Space, since there were a great many references made to it during the 4 days of the meeting.

TAM stands for The Amazing Meeting, and it is put on annually by the James Randi Educational Foundation.  Here’s James Randi:

He’s THIS adorable

He is a magician and illusionist who has spend his lifetime exposing scams, hoaxes, and supernatural phenomena.  His foundation is a non-profit whose mission is to:   “promote critical thinking by reaching out to the public and media with reliable information about paranormal and supernatural ideas so widespread in our society today.”  This annual meeting is a gathering of scientists, and experts in their fields, who seek to replace bad science, misinformation, incorrect conventional wisdom, and public misperception.  This foundation has had a standing offer for years of $1,000,000 to anyone who can offer any proof of ANY supernatural event or ability, including any religion, magician, mind-reader, or psychic.  It hasn’t yet been won.

A discussion of the weekend is not complete without first explaining the word Skepticism.  I’m sure we all know what the definition of the word is.  We say we are skeptical of something when we mean that we doubt or are uncertain or not convinced.  We may say we are skeptical of another’s conclusion.  Skepticism on the part of those individuals who refer to themselves as Skeptics, is an attitude, or an approach to life.  It is a method used to ascertain the validity of certain arguments.  It is a relentless process applied to every aspect of our lives, using the scientific method of hypothesis and disproof to reach conclusions.  It involves critical thinking, tools of science, evidence, and an investigative spirit.

There are times when we are presented with information that a certain product or treatment or procedure will work this or that wonder.  Skepticism is what keeps our money in our pockets and out of the hands of the folks making these claims.  Skepticism is what keeps us healthy.  Skepticism allows us to see the world as it really is, not as we wish it was, so that we can more effectively deal with our limits and our abilities.

The conference was a mix, as are most conventions like this, of workshops, socializing, whole group gatherings, and did I mention socializing?

I don’t know the most effective manner of presenting on this blog exactly what TAM was.  In my mind it’s all a spastic jumble of wonderful speakers, engaging debate, delightful new friendships, and stimulating challenges.  The meeting began on a Thursday morning, and ended on a Sunday night, and Amy and I attempted to attend every single moment of content that we could.

This is a link to a friend’s blog who “live-blogged” the event.  He did a fabulous job of trying to catch the highlights of each speaker (with a little help from a couple of fellow bloggers).  I won’t begin to try to describe everything, but his site is worth a visit to get a real flavor of the sequence of the meeting.

Hemant’s blog
Instead, I’ll highlight in more random fashion what Amy and I were most affected by, beginning with the opportunity to see and hear 2 of my favorite scientist (3 by Amy’s count):  Richard Dawkins, Neil deGrasse Tyson, and Bill Nye (yes, the Science Guy).  They, of course, were the big dogs at this event.  The room of 1600 attendees was riveted each time one of these gentlemen was on the stage.

Richard Dawkins was the keynote speaker on Saturday night, and what a joy to hear him speak.  He has been called strident and militant, but I have never heard a more soothing, gentle, patient voice speak with awe about the wonder of science.  He previewed for us his upcoming book for children:  The Magic of Reality.  In it he discusses different kinds of magic – the fairy tale version, intentionally created in stories and legend, the illusionary magic of tricks, and the poetic magic of reality, which is all the more wonderful because it is real and can be understood.  The book addressed civilization’s stories of creation, earthquakes, floods, and then gives a scientific explanation of how those things actually happened.  The illustrator is Dave McKean and his work is gorgeous.

There were book signings by all the speakers, and of course Amy and I both got our books signed by Dawkins – my picture is a little shabby, but here it is.

crappy, but recognizable

I can add that in a workshop on Thursday, Amy and I were contentedly listening to a panel of scientists talk about defending evolution in school when I glanced around and there, behind me, was the man himself.  I was so shocked I had a weird emotional moment – I couldn’t catch my breath and even started to cry (all subtle – I am a southern girl) – I couldn’t even tell Amy what was happening for a moment or two.  When I recovered, I got out my phone and had Amy take this shot:

that’s my shoulder and blouse on the right

In delightful opposition to Dawkins’ sophisticated and eloquent persona, was Dr. Neil Tyson’s warm, humorous, engaging presentation.  Dr. Tyson is an astrophysicist with the Hayden Planetarium, and both gave the keynote on Friday, and participated in a panel discussion about space exploration.

sexy as hell

Tyson is cooler than cool.  He made astronomy sexy and interesting and accessible.  There are scads of clips of him on Youtube doing different presentations and lectures – here’s one of my favorite:

NdGT on 2012

Then there was Amy’s favorite:  Bill Nye.  She grew up watching him do science experiments on public television, and  he’s one of her heroes.  He wore his recognizable bow tie and looks exactly like he has for all the years we’re seen him on TV.  He was captivating, and spoke of “being a speck, on a speck, in a speck, in a universe of specklessness”.  Because there was a theme of Outer Space, almost everyone’s lecture referred to the magificence and magnitude of the galaxies in the universe.

The Science Guy
Another fluke seating!

There were several other folks I had looked forward to hearing, and they all surpassed my expectations.  Carol Tavris, who wrote “Mistakes Were Made, But Not By Me” was the most gracious and articulate speaker I’ve ever heard.  Dr Eugenie Scott, an anthropologist, Dr Lawrence Krauss, a theoretical physicist, and Dr. Harriet Hall, a former flight surgeon and pilot in the USAF were among my favorites.  I also enjoyed, but had heard before, Dr. PZ Myers, probably the most popular science blogger on the internet.

You know how when you attend a convention sometimes you’ll hit a sinker in the middle of a lecture or workshop?  That never happened.  Every panel, every speaker, every workshop, every presentation was as interesting as the one before it:

WORKSHOPS

Defending Evolution in the Classroom and beyond

Recurring Themes in Medical Mythology

How to Effectively Create a Campaign of Grassroots Skepticism

Raising Skeptics

PANEL DISCUSSIONS

Our Future in Space

Ethics of Paranormal Investigations

Placebo Medicine

Now for a little about the socializing…

It IS Vegas.

Penn Jillette’s Rock and Roll Bacon and Donut Party.  Yes.  A whole multiverse of win.  Jillette offered this party to the TAM attendees in honor of James Randi.  There really was bacon.  1200 Krispy Kreme Donuts.  And Rock and Roll, with Jillette’s No God Band.  Amy and I had the best time dancing and drinking and rocking with our new friends at TAM.

(pics are on Amy’s camera – more to come)

Skeptics in the Hot Tub.  An informal event that took place every night in the hot tub.  Each day’s speakers and topics were discussed further, with sometimes animated dissent, until the casino finally kicked us out at closing time.

The Del Mar Bar.  Kind of a philosopher’s hangout.  We were told that the casino loses money on skeptics because we don’t gamble (because we understand statistics), so we tried our very best to make up for that here.  This was where the party went after the hot tub closed.

This post has gone on far too long….unlike TAM which ended too soon.  We had such a great experience, and Amy and I fully expect to attend again next year, and bring more of the fam along when we do!  We came away humbled, with new knowledge and information, new friendships, and a drive to see the world, its inhabitants, and all that may be beyond what we already know, in all of its beauty, as it really is.

Thanks for reading!

What’s a TAM?

The easiest thing to do is to give the website:

http://www.amazingmeeting.com

The fun thing to do is to write about everything that’s happening here!

Amy and I have scooted out of town for a quick few days to Las Vegas to the 9th gathering of the Amazing Meeting.  What a perfect adjective!

TAM is an annual celebration of science, skepticism, and critical thinking (right off the website).  It is our first time to attend, so I’ll be adding our perceptions and experiences as they happen.

Today is mostly workshops.  The run 2-at-a-time all day, so Amy and I are going to split up, then text like maniacs to decide which one go to!  Our first two this morning are Defending Evolution in the Classroom (me) and Examining UFO’s and How to Make Your Own Without photoshop (Amy).   That’s followed by Investigating Monster Mysteries (Amy) and Recurring Themes in Medical Mythology (me).

It’s my hope to blog tonight about all of today’s events, but we also have tickets to the 12:10 showing of Deathly Hallows, so I don’t even know if I’ll be conscious by then!

The conference is being held at the South Point Casino, and we’re staying on the 22nd floor – we have a view of the pool which we intend to critically investigate later today.  On the casino floor is that very Vegas dingdingdingding that you hear for days even after you’ve left.  We don’t think we’re going to gamble – maybe penny slots – but we like to watch other people lose money.

So I’ve written before about how all of my heroes are academics:  guess whose oxygen I will be breathing at this meeting?  If atheism had a deity, it would be Richard Dawkins, and he’s here!  I’ve got all of his books but one, but I didn’t see that one in the exhibit hall; Amy and I both brought our copy of God Delusion for autographs.  Go ahead, call us fangirls, we know who we are.

THE Richard Dawkins

But there are two more speakers I’m as excited to hear as Dawkins.  One is the founder of TAM and the James Randi Education Foundation:  James Randi.

THE James Randi

And finally, here, in Vegas for me to meet and see and listen to:  Neil DeGrasse Tyson!!!!!!!

THE Neil DeGrasse Tyson

He’s an astrophysicist and director of the Hayden Planterium, and he’s one of the best speakers I’ve ever heard (youtube him).  He’s funny and engaging and so so smart.  He’s played himself on Big Bang Theory, and he’s been on Daily Show and Colbert a few times.  He’s speaking on the timely topic of Our Future in Space.

Amy’s geeked about seeing Bill Nye, the Science Guy.  He’s on a couple of panels and is doing a presentation too.

I’m going to wait to write about the party at Penn Jillette’s house.  Just really don’t know what to expect with that, but can’t wait to go!

I know, not much review, but we just got here last night!  We hung in the bar a bit with some friends I had met in Des Moines.  We called it an early night because of the time change and tonight’s late date with the movie theatre inside this hotel!

Gotta go run and think….thanks for reading!!

kind of like the committee on committees

In a stunning departure from radicalism, I have chosen today to write about…writing.  And not even my own writing.  Other writers’ writing.

In a funny coincidence, I’ve been asked 3 times this week which blogs I read.  I’m happy to lay it out here, complete with links.  I’m not going to link all the websites I visit – it has to be a personal blog site.

So, starting with family…

This is the link to my son Sam (www.samejordan.wordpress.com).  Until he adds a new post, this will take you to his Mother’s Day gift to me.  This boy has always been able to express himself with words, and I’ve been nagging (just no other word will do) him for years to start a blog.  In an understatement, he’s an adventuresome soul, and this blog mainly details his adventures, starting with his description of “living in a van down by the river”.

Sam and his travel banjo - his Tranjo

Next is the twins’ travel blog (www.twinsinthailand.wordpress.com).  They’ve just begun this blog to chronicle their trip adventure in Thailand over the next 6 weeks.  They’re doing it old school, with no ipods/laptops/phones (only cameras), so their posting will be sporadic at best, but they’re taking notes and will do updates as they find computer access.

Pre-adventure: looking and smelling clean

Next is Big Jesse’s blog.  (www.crazyguyonabike.com/doc/teamfly).  It’s hosted by crazyguyonabike.com, but that link should take you directly to the blog.  He’s blogged before about his bike ride adventures when he and Sam rode 600 miles in Austria and Germany.  This link takes you to Jesse and Sam’s adventures on his TranAmerica bike ride beginning exactly tomorrow.

Jesse and Loretta with Glenda - he'll explain the name

That’s it for family, now on to friends.

My friend Nena writes a blog about her fabulous life, focusing lately on her boot camp experience in her fitness journey (www.creatingarunner.blogspot.com).  She’s funny.  You’ll love her.

My friend Ted writes a blog about….well, everything.  He self-described as a “snarky know-it-all”.  How can you not love that?  (www.runolfr.blogspot.com).

My friend Ben has begun a blog about his upcoming travel across the country, and if you visit his site, be sure to go back to the beginning (it’s a brand new blog) to read his personal story.  (www.bjcarrier.wordpress.com).

My friend Karissa writes about raising little heathens.  I have the joy and pleasure of having she and hubby Joey in my life, and I get to watch the delightful process of their raising freethinking, openminded little boys.  (www.therationalzealot.wordpress.com).

My friend Amy writes about her interesting life in her Predicaments, Pursuits, and Ponderings blog.  Lately she’s written about her drive for a sustainable lifestyle, including her own adventure with organic gardening and homebrewing.  She and hubby Cary also include the adventures of Sarge and Barley.  Go read it.  (www.predicamentspursuitsandponderings.blogspot.com)

I have both a cousin and friend who write interesting blogs about their lives and families, but they’ve been dormant for quite a while, so I’m going to give the space they need before I send you there.  It happens to all of us who write — life takes over and robs you of precious writing time and inspiration.  I love you Susan and Amy – come back.  I need you.

Finally, these blogs, while I’ve met the authors and consider them friends, go beyond just a small group of reader-friends, and into the realm of megabloggerdom.

My friend Jesse writes, with his beautiful sister, “Possibly the world’s #1 brother-sister blog about rationality, science, and philosophy.”  I steal from Jesse pretty regularly; he’s smarter than we are.  (www.measureofdoubt.com).

My friend JT writes about, as his blog says, Fighting Religion Tooth and Claw.  When you begin to think I’m too arrogant or radical or in-your-face with my activism, read JT’s words.  I’m a gentle, passive lamb.  He’s inspired, he’s passionate, he’s sexy  (www.wwjtd.net).

My friend Greta writes a sex blog.  She’s also an atheist activist, but she’s the only one I could say writes a sex blog, and I had to do that.  If you go there right now, you’ll see she combines the two in an interesting article about secularism and sex.  (www.gretachristina.typepad.com).  Greta is a rock star, and I’m not the only one who consistently thinks:  “I wish I’d written that!”

Greta, in steampunk, shooting me with a blowdryer

My friend PZ Myers is THE big dog.  He’s a brilliant and articulate biology professor with a sketchy affinity for cephalopods.  Believers, suit up before you click.  (www.scienceblogs/pharyngula).

PZ looking especially distinguished in his squid-balloon hat

All of the above are currently engaged in a fund-raising campaign for Camp Quest (www.campquest.org), and if I were any kind of techie at all, I’d be able to put the fund-raising widget on this site.  As it is, as you cruise their blogs, make a choice (slowly and carefully) about donating to this fabulous freethought summer camp.  Slowly and carefully as in the PZ-vs-everyone else sense.

There you go.  I’ll write a post soon about other sites I visit daily for news and information.  I have a particular affinity for blogs, so if you write one, and I don’t know about it – Tell me!!  If I included you in this list, and you didn’t want me to – Tell me!  I’ll correct that in a flash!

Coming soon:  Law school update.  Ironman training update.  More attitude about nutrition.  It’s all good.

Thanks for reading!

Very long overdue

I know, I know, I know.

I’ve been completely neglectful of my wonderful list.  I assure you that I’ve only neglected blogging about it, not dreaming about it.  It has transitioned from the 50 things to do in my 50th year to my straight-up Bucket List.  I have a hard copy of it too, that I keep in my planner and I’ll occasionally make a note or two.  The original list and notes are in italics – every time I publish it I try to add commentary on what I’ve done.


In order to celebrate managing to stay alive, happy, and healthy to my 50th, I am going to try 50 new things this year.  Some are huge (hike the Great Wall of China).  Some are tiny (drink a lime gimlet).  All are things I have never before done.  And in that same spirit of celebration, my friends and family will be participating with me.

I’ve had a few more suggestions since my last blog, and those will be reflected in the list.  I’ve decided to be a little less OCD, and a little more organic in the list.  I’m not going to preemptively remove anything from the list; there will be more than 50 things.  In my daily life, as I always do, I will seek out new and exciting experiences, and may very well add something to the list spontaneously, maybe even after I’ve done it.  I will attempt to do all, but my primary goal will be to accomplish 50 New Things.

You all have been so enthusiastic and free-spirited about all this; thanks for the suggestions and the WILLINGNESS to do them with me!

1.  Streak through Publix    –   Dora (You are SOOO on the hook for this – still)

2.  Do a Bob Ross painting   –   Glenda (Maybe after finals?)

3.  Drink a lime gimlet   –   Sam M (Got this one done – Hendrix gin, Rose’s Lime Juice, shaken and served by an actual Englishman – P-E-R-F-E-C-T-I-O-N!)

4.  Fire-hoop   –   Glenda (Not yet – need a little more practice)

5.   Color my hair pink/blue/something for a race   –   Glenda/Amy (for the Ohio Iron in September)

6.  Go to the Superbowl

7.  Scuba-dive Cayman or Honduras or Bahamas   –   Fran (maybe in conjunction with our Key West swim?)

8.  Write a song   –   Beth

9.  Hike a 14-er in Colorado   –   Ben (climbed Torrey’s Peak and Gray’s peak – 2 14’ers in the Front Range with my boy)

10.  Write a children’s book   –   Kristen

11.  Be in a live audience for a TV show   –   Kristen

12.  Eat crumb cake at Carlos’ Bakery in NYC   –   Kristen

13.  Horseback riding on the beach   –   Kristen

14.  Go parasailing   –   Kristen

15.  Go bungy-jumping

16.  Big-ass rubber band thingy   –   Mandi

17.  Run 50 miles   –   Vic  (less and less likely with each passing day – and it wasn’t probable to begin with!)

18.  Attend Loy Krathong, the sky lantern festival in Thailand   –   Vic

19.  Hike the Great Wall of China   –   Vic

20.  Swim in the largest swimming pool in the world, in Chile   –   Vic

21.  See sea turtles hatch and head for the ocean   –   Vic

22.  Go sky diving   –   Phil

23.  Learn to play pinochle, mah jongg, canasta or gin

24.  Eat gefilte fish with horseradish

25.  Dress like a man and go with a man to a straight bar and a gay bar (They don’t know it yet, but I’m going to do this with Chris and Bryson when they turn 21)

26.  Have a colonoscopy   –   mom

27.  Get a tattoo   –   Amy (Done!)

28.  Go to South Beach, Miami

29.  Attend lighting of candles in Jerusalem

30.  Take ballroom dance lessons  –  Tonya

31.  Meet the President 

32.  Do nothing for one day:  no work, no workouts, no computer, no phone, no TV

33.  Go on a photo safari

34.  Visit all the continents

35.  Panhandle on a corner

36.  Ride the TransCanadian Railway

37.  Drink Paddle of Destiny at Mellow Mushroom   –   Susan (I’ve done this at least 3 times, but never with my girl Susan, so it stays on the to-do list!)

38.  Renew marriage vows   –   Mike

39.  Finish an Ironman  –  me (woooohooooo!!!  October 23, 2010!!)

40.  Climb a redwood tree   –   Amy

41.  Hike the Adirondacks   –   Becky

42.  Learn to swordfight   –   Ted (I know Ted, my bad – I will do this!)

43.  Drive a race car   –   Ted

44.  Hike the AT   –   Ted

45.  Take a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu class   –   Shannon

46.  Kayak the Gauley   –   Sam

47.  Do a road trip   –   Brianna

48.  Swim with dolphins   –   Brianna

49.  Full moon party in Koh phangan, Thailand   –   Lila

50.  Visit Iguazu Falls in Argentina   –   Lila

51.  Go dog sledding in Alaska   –   Lila

52.  Become a licensed minister and marry someone   –   Lila (OK, girlie, I’ve done the become-a-licensed-minister part – just gotta find someone who is disrespectful enough of the institution to allow me to do it!!)

53.  Swim with sharks   –   Lila

54.  Jump off of a waterfall   –   Lila

55.  Watch Dr. Zhivago (how did I miss that?)

56.  Memorize Pi to 50 places  (3.1415926535 – that’s as far as I can do from memory)

57.  Go see the Formula 1 race in Monaco  –  Brother Eric

58.  Sit through an entire episode of:  O’Reilly/Beck/Colter/Limbaugh  –  Brother Eric  (you have no idea how hard this will be!)

59.  Make Bananas Foster

60.  See the Tour de France in person, not just on Versus at 2:00 in the morning!

61.  Place a $1000 bet on one hand of blackjack  –  Brother Eric

I’d like to add here

#62.  Ride my bike around Cade’s Cove in the moonlight.  Done.

So there it is.  My achievement ratio is disappointingly low.  BUT – remember the disclaimer.  If I don’t get it accomplished this year, it rolls right onto the Life Bucket List.  And the ratio doesn’t take into account things I have done, since May, for the first time that DIDN’T make the list.  Like bat wrangling in England.  And trying to catch a longhorn.  And manually expressing my dogs’ anal glands.  Oh yeah.  Just couldn’t bring myself to blog about that one.

So that’s the update as of April of 2011.  I’m going to Florida with brother for a few days next week.  I’ll try to get one of those TV shows watched while I’m there, and maybe make the Bananas Foster.

If you have another thought, comment away!  Just remember the rule – if you suggest it, you’ll be asked to do it with me – that’s the dealio!

safe driving technique

Thanks for reading!

Eating babies, pt 3.

Every convention has its socializing element.  Every convention gives its attendees free time to talk and discuss and argue and laugh.  When the convention is an atheist convention, when its attendees are inherently thinkers and talkers, and have a deep appreciation of the joy and value of each moment, the socializing element should not be minimized.

Hence you have day 2 being recapped on day 3.  It was my intention to post at the end of each day, but the day didn’t end, again, until the wee morning hours, so here we go.

Jamila Bey

What a breath of fresh air to begin the morning’s session with Jamila Bey.  Jamila (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DgdfHVwK884) gave us her experience of atheism in the African-American community (I know, Jamila, there is no ONE African-American experience!) with passion and clarity.  The social importance of the religious network in anyone’s life is not to be minimized; in the African-American woman’s life, it’s almost paramount.  Jamila seems to be made entirely of self-confidence and humor, but she has faced her share of resistance and criticism from the people she loves the most.

Jamila’s talk was followed by a diversity panel that was enlightening and informative.  The atheist movement by its nature is broad and inclusive, so when we have a diversity panel, we have a diversity panel!  It was interesting to hear perspective from other ethnicities and cultures.

We heard from comedian Paul Provenza, reading from his book “Satiristas”, and from Troy Conrad again, who was a scream.  Irreverent, thought-provoking, and interactive, both of these guys are worth Youtubing.

Then came the big guns.  PZ Myers (http://scienceblogs.com/pharyngula/) spoke to us about what else?  SCIENCE.

from the biology professor
The great PZed Myers

We heard from Professor Hector Avalos, who is a Religious Studies professor at Iowa State University.  If you’ve seen the movie “Expelled” by Ben Stein, you’ll be familiar with his subject.

Finally, on Saturday we heard from two psychiatrists with the Richard Dawkins Foundation for Reason and Science.  They shared with us the physiological and psychological effects of religious thinking and freethought.

Sunday started with JT Eberhard from the Secular Student Alliance giving us a report of student organizations and their phenomenal, exponential growth.  JT is such a voice for inspiration and motivation in the movement, and it’s my hope to have him visit the MTSU campus when we get the SSA going there.

Next was Lawrence Krauss, a quantum physicist who gave us little talk about Richard Feynman and his work.  We heard also from Matt Dillahunty, who hosts the podcast for the Austin Community of Atheists.  I got to join him for a meal or two, and found a little connection – his fiance is the former leader of the secular group at ETSU, and we chatted a bit about the student group there.

Finally, after an international symposium regarding the atheist movement, we listened to a military panel tell about the environment in the services for atheists.  I will leave to your imagination what their responses were.

Military Freethinkers

There’s a basic outline of what we did – I’ll try to blog in more detail about specific speeches and conversations I had with other attendees.  Tonight’s agenda includes more debate and beer, not necessarily in that order.

Thanks for reading!

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